Q&a: Breakup Advice Please?
I was with him for almost 2 years,we weren’t doing so well before he broke up with me thing is he had left me for his ex a while back because she was pregnant but we werent official during that time i was crushed and slept with someone but never told him about it.Turn’s out the girlfriend of the man i saw meanwhile my boyfriend was back with his ex found out and told my boyfriend it had happened very recently which i know she did to get him to leave me.
But before she told him i came clean with him but he said he wanted to see what this girl said to him so basically he did not believe me.He went by what she said and broke up with me.I was always the one to call him or look for him over any arguement.That day he grabbed his thing’s and left.Messaged me in the middle of the nite and said it was over.I agreed.But then stupidity came over me and i went over his house that nite only to be treated like trash infornt of his family.
Day’s went by and he show’s up to get his thing’s without calling,by then i had packed his thing’s he got madder when he saw they were packed and ready.He insulted me and i defended myself and closed the door after he walked out.10 minutes passed and he kept calling me to say he forgot some weights he had which i heard in my messages becaue i was not picking up his calls.Now a couple of day’s have passed and i have not contacted him because i want to save myself the pain of being rejected and treated like dirt, ive been extremely heartbroken were im planning to seek some help with a therapist.About his thing’s he still has here i have no idea what to do whether to call his mother to pick them up or wait till he does? I guess i still do have hope he might come back but im staring to grieve because im letting him go.Do you think he does miss me or is wondering what’s going on with me.
That day he came by unexpectadley he was saying i had someone else because i assume he saw i was not begging him.Im so confused ,if he see’s ive stopped calling him im wondering if he will?
Thing is i changed since he was believeing this woman over me.I stopped being the one calling him and looking for him.I know we still lov each other but i know hes hurt and angry with me.I also know his family has already brained washed him so i probably have no hope with ever getting back with him.He is 28 and i am 24.I love this man and i know i made a mistake by not telling him because he did tell me he slept with his ex meanwhile we werent official but slept togheter.
My birthday passed he didn’t call me.
What to do any real advice with experience please.
Thank’s alot for your answer’s i was a bit hesitant to because there are some people who are mean and im not feeling very well.Justice i know your right! it even made me cry to see what you said.This is such a hard time for me to love someone who obvioulsy dosen’t.
Best answer:
Answer by TheUndisputed
Get with his best friend, and tell him that he never has another shot. That one is always a punch below the belt.
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you are heart broken…. but it sounds to me that you are better off without this basturd… he has left you for his ex before… how painful was that? this is a jerk that thinks of himself, not you… the pain will eventually go away… every day it will get a little better… until one day you will wonder what you ever saw in the son of a b!#$ h in the first place… better things are waiting for you.. this i promise…. but until then key the motherf*@%ers car and do something nice for yourself… you deserve better.. never look back… and key his car…
You are heart-broken baby, but it sounds to me that you’re better off without this asshole. He left you for his ex before, how painful was that? This is a guy that thinks of himself, not you. This pain WILL go away, every day it will get better, until one day you’ll wonder what you ever saw in the bastard in the first place. Better things are waiting girl, I promise you.
You’ll be alright sweetheart it’s horrible breaking up with someone no doubt you’re going crazy with thoughts in your head maybe don’t feel like eating can’t sleep but you’ll come out of it , I would say try and do some exercise when you feel down that will make you feel better , and lets be honest he could have gone to the shops got run over and killed life goes on , lol .
the fact he believes his ex over you is a HUGE thing… it’s better off like this… you deserve someone that trust you… you werent even together when you slept with that guy so… he has not right anyways… i cant believe he believed his ex… i was never in this exact situation… but it is better off… you should wait for more… and believe me they are out there… you are young… got plenty of time…
i would do this i would ut the rest of his things in a box and bring it to his or his parents house and leave it on their foot step and leave… unless he comes back begging you on his knees… doesnt except him back… and the fact that his ex has a child with him… you dont need this too… xx
to tell u the truth any guy that treats u like dirt in front of his own family isnt worth it.i understand that u love him but for ur own sake and health u need to let him go like they say if its meant to be he’ll come back in the mean time have sum YOU time, go out with ur girlfriends,go shopping,get ur hair done,have a day at the spa anything to get ur mind off him and feel good about urself.and oh well u slept with sumone else who cares we all make those kinda mistakes and it was when u guys werent together so if he cant look past that then hes not worth it.and he should be on ur side or at least not go by but what sumone else says she doesnt know and he doesnt know whathappened cuz they werent there.just dont worry about it anymore the more u do the more its gonna bother u.dont spend ur time thinking if hes thinking about u cuz most likely hes not guys arent like girls they wont spend their time worrying as much as we do so just take sum time to urself and remember only can really make the decision to let him go.
i hope this helps and if not i hope u find sumone who could help.