Q&a: How Can I Get My Relationship Back on Track?
Sunday, November 13th, 2011 at
5:45 am
Question by Raider Mark: How can I get my relationship back on track?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and I think we hit a plateau. We have been bickering a lot more. How can I spice up our relationship to prevent us from breaking up. I really love this girl and I think that she is the one and I want to fight for her. I need your help to save my relationship before its too late
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and I think we hit a plateau. We have been bickering a lot more. How can I spice up our relationship to prevent us from breaking up. I really love this girl and I think that she is the one and I want to fight for her. I need your help to save my relationship before its too late
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Answer by Bobby
give her good sex
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do a few things to mix up the routine….
surprise her with dinner when she gets home
buy her some lingerie and ask her to model it for you
send her dirty text messages
… if that stuff doesn’t work try spending less time together, she will be more excited to be with you whenever its possible
Have a threesome, that will spice up the relationship.
You need 1 – Honesty and Communication , and 2 – To apologize (if you have wronged her) so you two can stop bickering.
How do you apologize to your lover? The best apologies are those that are heartfelt, empathetic, without any backhandedness or fakeness. For example, if you have ever apologized by saying “I’m sorry, but…” that is an example of insincerity. Leave out the extra piece of your apologies and purely empathize. Do not try to win a battle with your apology or prove that you shouldn’t need to be the one apologizing, for example. If you got into this situation, your partner just wants to feel understood, so empathize with her.
Dale Carnegie reiterated the previous point. It’s what we most want as humans- to be understood. So instead of telling your girlfriend “I’m sorry that I didn’t call you back, BUT I was really busy, and you don’t call me back anyhow” or something along those lines, you should instead replace that with “I’m sorry for not calling you back, you must feel frustrated with me, I was consumed with a project that I had been working on…” etc.
So again – the big difference here is not arguing or trying to prove your point. You’re not trying to win her approval. You are understanding HER point of view. We all just want to be heard, to be understood. We all have our insecurities, and once you understand that it will help you out tremendously in your relationships.
Apologies aren’t always easy, and they change depending on the offending action. There is a lot of information on apologizing the correct way; it was included in the Magic of Making Up e-Book package when I purchased it a couple of years back.